another blow.
a young girl raising a little boy contacted us.
we skyped, we chatted, we bonded.
and then she decided we were not the right parents for the 1 year old.
we get it.
we understand.
her story was astonishing.
what a brave young lady.
but it is still a blow.
another let down.
and it hurts.
a lot.
and here i am screaming quietly because only time heals your heart.
and then the legal peeps found my blog by googling -- a and s ad.0.p.t. (not like that, but you get it what I am doing).
they told me lots have to go. the posts are too deep and open.
they told me lots have to go. the posts are too deep and open.
13 comments:
I'm so sorry. I wish I could just give you a hug. I know nothing anyone can say can make it better...but hopefully the little soul that was meant for you is going to find you any minute!
:( Call if you need to talk. My heart hurts for you, love.
I am so frustrated on your behalf! I just think this is all so unfair for you.
And I am sorry that it didn't work out with the girl who contacted you. I will never say that "it wasn't meant to be" because I think that is a cliche that people use when they don't really know what else to say. So I will just say I am sorry, and that I am hoping and praying for you that the day comes soon when your 800 number rings and it is the birth parent(s) of your future son or daughter.
xoxo
Maybe this decision was more about this young lady than it was about you folks.
Keep the faith.
Hannah G.
hugs
I don't get the lawyer. Obviously, this is a very personal and difficult journey you're on, and for her to have such a lack of sensitivity is just unacceptable to me. Just because she's the one getting paid here doesn't give her the right to be callous in how she deals with you and works out the wrinkles in this process. Ugh!
i know it is hard. but, you have to trust the legal people. they have done this before and know what birth mom's are looking for. and you don't have to be friends with that stupid judging woman. you have plenty!!!!!
I agree with JLI. Ridiculous that the legal peep did that. Praying for you!
Hang strong!
I do not understand these lawyers. I mean, I get it, but I do not understand how you are supposed to represent yourself fully if you are not truly representing yourself. Know what I mean? Ugh.
I'm so sorry love. I didn't know about the young girl and the baby :(
I guess MCW said it best. But, wow. Your struggles are so much more than any of us know. Er, most of us know. You keep on plugging away...we will keep lifting you up in prayer. I know God is working to bring you and Adam the baby you both deserve so much. I love you and I am sorry your having to be censored so much.
Attorney girl needs to back the hell up - before we have to scrap! :-)
Boo to all of that! Boo to the girl getting your hopes up (b/c who are we kidding our hopes get up no matter what)! Boo to that attorney basically saying you can't be you and still adopt! Boo Boo Boo and Hoo in there too! I'm sorry that crappiness happened! love!!!!
not mentioning cats is crazy. im sorry all these hoops youre going thru. :/
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